Can You Feed Yourself?


“Anyone who has to drink milk is still a baby, without experience in applying the Word about righteousness” (Heb. 5:13, CJB).

I’ve noticed a pattern, in my several decades of church attendance. Some of my fellow believers seem to experience spiritual growth on a “fast track.” Others seem to stay virtually the same, no matter how many years go by.

What is the difference?

I believe it boils down to how hungry for Jesus we are. If we yearn for Him with all that we are, we will learn to feed on Him, and we will grow. If we are less than wholehearted, we will most likely stay in what the Bible bluntly calls the “baby” stage.

In the early months of life, a baby lives exclusively off of milk. If the little one is going to progress past this preliminary nutritional phase, she or he must acquire new skills. Said new skill acquirement has been the inspiration of many a hilarious Facebook worthy picture! Much more baby food ends up all over the child’s face, body, high chair, and everywhere around it, than in his/her belly.

Such it is when we are learning to eat solid food, spiritually. It’s a mess. At the beginning, the amount of substance we actually take in, is limited. Experiencing so many new tastes and textures in the Word is exciting. However, we have a long road ahead of us. Much exertion and determination will be required of us.

Are we willing? Do we really want to get past the point of depending soly on our pastors and leaders to spoon feed us God’s truth? Do we want to pay the price? If we earnestly desire to get to the level of maturity where we can feast daily on the meat of the Word, we are going to need to work hard to acquire some vital self-feeding skills.

As we apply ourselves in daily quiet time with God, it’s like picking up those practice utensils again, and again, and again. Week by week, month by month, we are slowly but surely learning to eat. We are learning to take in the sustenance our spirit so desperately needs for long-term growth.

Truth be told, children need years to acquire a full skill set for self-feeding. My five-year-old still leans heavily on my help when it comes to cutting up her meat. I will continue to encourage her to practice, and practice, and practice. (That’s her practicing, just last night, in the photo 😊.) Thankfully, her hunger is a wonderful motivational force to boost continual skill development in this area.

The parallel continues. If we are voraciously hungry for the deep things of the Spirit, we need to keep working on our eating skills. It’s going to take time, patience, and persistence. Solid food is for the mature, for those eager to partake of so much more than just milk. It’s for those who refuse to give up on the process, no matter how many times the food falls off the fork on the way to their mouth.

Dear one, for those of us willing to practice, and practice, and practice… the rewards are honestly going to be mind-boggling. “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be completely satisfied” (Matt. 5:6, Weymouth).

How hungry are you?


Junk food can spoil a child’s appetite for real nutrition. Is this true spiritually as well?

Special plug: is a fantastic place to go to hone your spiritual self-feeding skills!

2 thoughts on “Can You Feed Yourself?

  1. Jennifer, I clearly remember, when I came to Christ in 1977. Most all distractions and daily activity was removed from my life – I was in a DEEP DARK PIT- out of control. When I turned to the FATHER- my circumstances remained for season. My time was spent reading, meditating and memorizing scripture and being in the company of fellow believers. My prayer time lasted throughout the day and I went about helping others speaking to folks about what Jesus had done in my life. This continued until I got a job and was re-married. I drifted from the Lord several times over the years, but continued reading his Word and Praying..but my life no longer reflected my love for the Lord and obedience was neglected. At this time, there are many parallels with when I first KNELT at the feet of OUR FATHER. Praise be to God. Age does not matter, our conviction and commitment and Faith is what keeps us in the FLOCK. len

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